B.7 A visitor during the Buhain-Ignacio wedding said ”Saang galing familia iyan” where somebody answered ”never heard’;

B.8 While continuing to promote books although I passed already the bar exams a school principal in Cebu who is a lawyer said ” You are a disgrace to the profession – instead of practicing law you are selling books” ;

Note: I am happy to give recognition to my sister-in-law Ditas Ignacio wife of former Assemblyman Rolleo Ignacio who through her usual cooperative predisposition especially with relatives shared some predicted questions where 20% were asked thus elevating my score at the bar exams and to Justice Edgardo L. Paras for the brief coaching on how to answer ;

B.8.1 I am thankful to Divine Providence for allowing me to pass the bar exams with flying colors despite the following negating circumstances:

B.8.1.1 I took law for a span of ten (10) years as I could not take full load course as I would promote books during the second (2nd) semester;

B.8.1.2 It is aggravated by the situation that when I started studying law the erstwhile Constitution was still in effect but when I took the bar the revised Constitution was the one in effect;
B.8.1.3 It would truly be an embarrassing situation if I would fail in the bar exams considering that Rex Book Store is a publisher and distributor of law books;
Note: May I take this opportunity to give recognition to my classmates at the Ateneo including First Gentleman Mike Arroyo, Atty. Teddy Cruz, Former Ombudsman Mercy Navarro, fellow long termer Mariano Celis III, Ruby Henson, Evelyn Geroche Villegas, Vivian Gonzaga, Daisy Arce, Sonia Tablizo etc.;

May I, as cited earlier take this opportunity to thank Atty. Ave Cruz for recently inviting me in my capacity as the President/Chairman of Rex Book Store for serving as the Vice-chairman on the segment of the ASEAN Integration proposed law subjects?

B.9 During a party, a supposed kinakapatid from the Rodrigo clan near the De La Paz Residence said “paforma forma ka wala ka naman ibubuga”;

B.9.1 A reported member of the Locsin family together with his barkada inflicted series of physical blows on me thus creating numerous lumps on my face when I hit his car with my station wagon without any forthcoming aid from my group;

B.9.2 The foregoing statement, inquiries and experiences could be indicative of the arrogance of the rich and wealthy over those who have lesser in life;

B. One of the turning points in my life like what I said earlier was when I passed the bar after taking the law course at the Ateneo College of Law for ten (10) years;
C.1 Being a lawyer aside from giving justifications for me to wear coat and tie it opened up new doors like assuming the leadership of the Philippine Educational Publishers Association(PEPA) where I was elected upon the endorsement of Second President Jesse Sibal who succeeded the founder Dr. Ernesto Sibal;

C.2 I was given the privilege of being the President of PEPA for at least fifteen (15) years;

Note: I would like therefore to avail of this opportunity to announce even posthumously my deepest thanks to Jessie Sibal for the endorsement of my leadership to this prestigious organization and to the former Secretary General Dr. Juanita Guerrero former Chief of the Bureau of Elementary Education who assisted me on the advocacy of uplifting the quality of educational publications through this prestigious organization.

May I take this opportunity to give recognition to the PEPA Members who are here with us under the leadership of Pres. Policarpio?

C.3 Being a President of PEPA enables me to become the Chief Delegate of the Philippines to the International Publishers Association (IPA) wherein I followed the practice of shouldering the membership fees as well as incurring the travel expense which, however, fulfilled my childhood dream to be like Peter Pan on his ability to fly but in my case through the airplanes;

Note: I am thankful in particular to Dr. and Mrs. Jose Buhain for serving as the architects of world travel by introducing me to become a member of the Travelers’ Century Club where full pledged membership would require having visited at least one hundred (100) countries and remote islands, to my parents Jovita and Juanito, to Brother Ogie and Brother Totie and to the family in general for the encouragement to travel should financial conditions would allow.

May I give recognition to the Bu-Fon familes?

C.4 Being the PEPA President gave me also the opportunity to become the Chief Delegate to the Asia Pacific Publishers Association (APPA) where I was appointed Honorary Chairman for actively participating thereto for twenty(20) years thus further allowing me to visit more places;

C.5 Likewise, as an offshoot of these experiences I spearheaded the formation of the ASEAN Book Publishers’ Association wherein recently I together with Breezy Santiago were given the honors of giving formation and sustenance to the existence of ABPA during the preceding nine (9) years thus allowing me once more to visit more places;

C.5.1 Thus all in all I have completed visiting two hundred fifteen (215) countries;

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Palawan

 

A.1.20 With Danda,  the  experience  I  had with Don  appeared to have been  reversed, where at St. James School in Tandang Sora, Quezon City  I would  be required to go upstage interminably to put medals and necklaces of honors prompting me to say to  myself “Yes Lord, thank you  for answering my prayers”;

A.1.21 When she transferred, however, to the Holy Spirit Quezon City and then to Assumption for her tertiary course the long range aspiration that she would consistently receive honors has not reappeared where I would say to myself then: “Lord, hindi pala lasting”.;

A.1.22 At present, she is now the Director for Publishing and Manager for Strategic Partnerships and Business Development of the REX Group and is known for her resiliency and objectivity in resolving matters affecting the business and even family interrelationships;

A.1. 23 As narrated above, both Don and Danda are late bloomers and admittedly played pivotal roles in the present-day survival and success of the Rex Group;

A.1.24 Notwithstanding the heretofore challenges both of Don and Danda, they have learned the value of saving which had been inculcated during the early years where likened to the Rockefeller style Don would have special ledger of his personal accounts to ascertain his current financial position until now;

A.1.25 They learned to survive with meager school allowances and would even venture to initiate businesses to enhance their financial situation where they suffer frustrations as their father during the early years was not constantly present as he would be out in the field selling and promoting books while Cynthia was likewise not predisposed to spoil them with fat allowances;

A.1.26 Cynthia would even scold Danda for reminding her at the middle of the night of her “utang” where Cynthia would say “ang tindi ninyo nananalaytay talaga ang dugong Buhain sa inyo sa pagkamakunat”;

A.1.27 Thus though the foregoing experiences could be harsh where stinginess prevailed and togetherness between father and children was missing, the circumstance nevertheless could have strengthened their resolve to improve themselves financially leading to financial independence allowing them to have the capability to finance this big event if only to manifest their love and respect to their father notwithstanding the latter’s imperfections;

A.1.28 Thank you Don and Danda for deciding to hold this prestigious event to honor your father;

A.1.29 Thank you for being articulate and/or talkative (due to the pig’s sexual organs placed in your respective rooms by Grandmother Deling during your respective births) and unafraid to talk and interact with people not only with people below but people of high caliber and proven authority thus not being afraid to meet the challenges of the business allowing us to survive at this point in time in this competitive world;

A.1.30 Thank you Cynthia for begetting these two (2) children Don and Danda;

A.1.31 Thank you Don on your pronouncements during the death of your mother” Thank you Mom for allowing Dad to fly” followed by the conciliatory pronouncement ”Dad, do not worry we will take care of you”;

B. From my perspective, there were certain experiences also which were already cited elsewhere which were blessings in disguise for a person like me whose capability are at the mediocre level to move forward and to seek a place in the sun;
B.1 Due to my desire to improve my financial situation I even decided to do an exclusive caroling devoid of a group thus the savings would be for my benefit exclusively and that I am thankful to have preserved the caroling instrument made of flattened soft drink covers and a sliced piece of bamboo as evidentiary proof of this seemingly selfish move to enrich oneself;

B,2 Duringthe death of my father I heard vividly my neighbor ”Ano kaya mangyayari sa mga batang ito?

B.3 Despite the meager financial situation of my widowed mother with three (3) children, she courageously enrolled us at the prestigious San Beda College;

B.4 One of my classmates at San Beda made the following remark”Akala ko mayaman kayo dahil ang ganda ng kotse (Buick 57) pinanghahatid sundo sa San Beda pero ang liit pala ng inyong bahay’;

Note: I am proud to announce to my mother and the classmate who made the remark that I was given the Distinguished Bedan Alumni Awards on two (2) occasions “Bedan Achiever Award” and “The Most Distinguished Bedan Award”, “First Icon of SBC-GSB Entrepreneurship”, a Professorial Room in my name and other honors and exclusively the “Hall of Fame Award” during 2013;

I am also honored to announce the venerable Father Benabarre OSB whose age is approaching one hundred (100) years old chose Rex as his publisher and printer in his present day writings including his new book “My First Hundred Years” which will be released on the occasion of his birthday;

At this juncture, may I give recognition to Father Benabarre, Fr. Abbot Alaras, Father Rector Aloysisus Maranan, my classmates at San Beda Class ‘61 with Valedictorian Baby De Leon, Major General Art Carillo, Past BDO President Exequiel Villarcorta, Ambassador Wilfrido Villacorta, Business Magnates Francis Tiu Laurel, Richie Cuerva, Oscar Contreras, Cesar Corquera among others), directors of the San Beda Alumni Association under the incumbent President Comelec Commissioner Rene Sarmiento, San Beda Alumni Foundation under former Secretary of Health Jaime Galvez Tan for instilling in me the virtue of ora et labore or pray and work;

Recently I was invited in my capacity as President and Chairman of the Rex Book Store by the Dean of San Beda College of Law, ACCRA President and the incoming ASEAN Lawyer’s Association President Ave Cruz to serve as Co-Chairman of the ASEAN Law Forum on proposed new law subjects;

May I give recognition to Atty. Ave Cruz?;

B.4.1 Though my stay at the De La Salle College where I completed Bachelor of Science in Business Administration did not earn much recognition I am nevertheless thankful I received the following Citation for Being Silver Jubilarian and the PECASA Award (which presently is nowhere to be found) with Ambassador to the USA Cuisia, Atty. Rene Saguisag and Makati Business Association Mr. Ramon Del Rosario as similar awardees and lately a Certificate of Appreciation from De La Salle Lipa was awarded to Rex Book Store for sponsoring the formation of their law library;

B.5 One of the members of the barkada would state “Huwag na natin isama sa party si Buhain wala namang pera yan!”

B.6 When I was about to get married to Cynthia, a relative from Bulacan inquired from my mother “May lupa rin ba kayo? My mother just smiled where I spoke silently to myself “Marami, sa paso”;

Note: Despite my absence of familiarity yet with many members of the famous Bulakena Club I have been chosen to succeed the leadership of President Cabochan. At this juncture, may I therefore give recognition to my friends at Bulakena Club with Engineer and Lydia Reyes as the Founders for the trust reposed;

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